Respect Goes a Long Way: Why Etiquette Matters in
Korea
Traveling to Korea is an exciting experience filled
with rich culture, delicious food, and warm people. While Koreans are generally
welcoming and understanding toward foreigners, knowing a few local customs can
go a long way in making a good impression — and even earning some friendly
smiles along the way.
In this post, we’ll introduce a few basic etiquette
tips for common situations you may encounter during your trip to Korea.
When Meeting Someone for the First Time
In Korea, first impressions matter. Here’s how to make
a polite one:
- Bow Lightly: A small bow or nod is a common way to greet someone, especially
elders or in formal settings.
- Handshake with Both Hands: If you go for a handshake, use both hands —
your right hand to shake, and your left hand to lightly support your right
wrist or forearm. This shows respect.
- Use Titles: Instead of using first names, address people by their titles and
family names if known (e.g., “Mr. Kim” or “Manager Lee”).
Tip: It’s considered polite to wait for the other person to initiate the
handshake or greeting, especially if they are older or in a senior position.
At a Restaurant
Dining in Korea can be a cultural experience in
itself. Here’s how to be respectful at the table:
- Wait Before Eating: Don’t start eating until the oldest person at the table begins.
- Two Hands for Pouring: If you’re pouring a drink (especially alcohol),
use two hands — or at least support your pouring hand with your other.
- Don’t Stick Chopsticks Upright: Never stick your chopsticks straight into a
bowl of rice. It resembles a ritual for the dead.
- Share Communally, but Use Serving Utensils: If dishes are shared,
try using the designated spoon or chopsticks to take your portion.
At a Café
Cafés in Korea are everywhere, and many are quiet,
cozy places for conversation or study. Keep these tips in mind:
- Order at the Counter: In most cafés, you order and pay at the counter
before finding your seat.
- Respect Quiet Spaces: Keep your voice low, especially in study cafés or
library-style locations.
- Return Your Tray: It’s considered good manners to return your tray and empty dishes
after you finish.
On the Street or in Public Spaces
Even when walking around, etiquette plays a role:
- Stay to the Right: On escalators and sidewalks, Koreans tend to keep to the right
(especially in Seoul).
- Don’t Speak Loudly in Public Transport: Subways and buses are usually very quiet.
Talking on the phone is discouraged.
- Be Mindful of Personal Space: Korea is crowded, but people still try to avoid
bumping into others — a small bow or quick “죄송합니다 (Sorry)” goes a long way
if you do.
Final Thoughts
You don’t need to master every custom — Koreans
understand that cultural differences exist. But showing interest and effort in
local etiquette will not only help you avoid awkward moments but also open
doors to deeper connections and warmer interactions.
So go ahead — bow a little, smile a lot, and enjoy
your journey in Korea with confidence!
Safe travels! If you’ve experienced Korean hospitality
or have a question about local manners, leave a comment below!
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